יצא לי לשוחח עם מישהי מחו"ל, שסיפרה לי על משיכה ליחסים של Daddy Dom/baby girl. אני מודה שתמיד היתה לי אמביוולנטיות לנושא, שנבעה מההשקה לגילוי עריות וכו' או פערי גיל מוגזמים, קטינות וכו'. ומאידך, זו תמיד היתה דינמיקת השליטה המועדפת עלי.
אחרי שהעמקתי בזה מעט, מצאתי בזה תובנה משמעותית לגבי מה מושך אותי. עוד פאזה במסע הזה ובהבנה שלי את עצמי.
אז הלכתי לקרא ומצאתי את הפוסט הזה. אני מתחבר להרבה ממה שכתוב פה. חלק גדול מזה זה מאוד אני, איך שאני תופס את הדבר הזה.
people often confuse the Daddy/little girl dynamic of a BDSM relationship with a desire to have sex with underaged girls, girls wanting to have sex with their fathers, or having a penchant for incest. This is simply not the case
The Daddy Dom/little girl (or baby girl) relationship doesn't reflect a true father/daughter relationship. Instead, it is a D/s relationship which fulfills a fantasy of both parties. On the Dom's part it satisfies his desire to be needed and to nurture and protect his “little girl.” As for her part, the “little girl” is allowed to put aside some of the responsibilities of adulthood and indulge her inner child, knowing that her partner will take care of her
.Age play is a separate dimension to this relationship dynamic. Some little girls and their Daddies engage in age play. Some don't
?so what characterizes a Daddy Dom
:A Daddy Dom
Wants to provide his little girl with her every need and be the center of her universe.Believes in her more than she believes in herself.Shapes and molds his little girl to help her reach her highest potential.Takes great pride in her and loves to show her off.Makes discipline a priority in their lives.Gives his submissive acceptance. (He knows all her dirty little secrets and loves her anyway.) Acts as an authority figure in his little girl's life, but he also brings a degree of caring and ritual to the role that she craves.“Nurturing” and “protective” seem to be the hallmark characteristics that set Daddy Doms apart from other style Doms. They dote on their little girls and in turn, their little girls worship them and make them the center of their worlds
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