I used to live in L.A, it was a charcter building time, you see the diffrences between there and here are truely profound, American's, they are socially more intelligent, they are also more carefree - living in a reality with no wars or any type of threat over their heads, no religious constrictions over their sexuality - you can literally see guys fingering their girls in clubs if you pay attention. the girls aren't afraid to have sex and intiate it as well, if you look a girl in the eyes and walk towards her she smiles or sometimes even say "Hi", but here in Israel they always divert their look away - as if they are doing something wrong that they should be punished for. I even lost my virginity there.
I'd love to be back in the U.S just to breath deep that inner sense of freedom and carefree I had.
There is no carefree world here.